06/14/2017

What Is A Timeout ?

Today we will talk about this method of positive parenting as a timeout. God made children so young, so that when they go out of control, we could take them up and give them a timeout. Often, the child behaves bad simply because he forgot that his parents - the main and it suits him. And, if the child does not get what he needs to feel like work, he eventually loses contact with her parents and goes out of control. Children need guidance. Time-outs are needed in order to regain control when emotions become too strong.

Even many adults do not know how to manage their emotions in stressful situations. Especially can not wait for this to children. If a parent feels anger, anxiety, depression, apathy, censure, embarrassment or guilt, then he should look inside yourself and overcome negative emotions. The difference between adult and child that an adult is able to understand himself, when he needs a timeout, and the child - no. If an early age to teach a child to the time outs, starting with nine or ten years, he himself will take time-outs whenever feel the inner tension and the spirit of contradiction. It's easy, but there needs practice.

Giving the child a timeout, an adult acquires control not only over the child, but also on themselves. The kid stops resisting when he able to feel and release the three underlying negative emotions - anger, sadness and fear. Adults also can get rid of negative blocks resentment, guilt and self-pity - for that he needs to take time out to review, feel and release the negative emotions.
Jun 14, 2017 4:56:20 AM

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